Writing "My Zig~Zag To Healing" not for fame or fortune, I penned my autobiography to help my sisters and brothers around the world to really heal ~ learning from my 100% true misadventures and severe multiple addictions.
Chapter 54 ~ the grand finale of the book, I titled "Divine Intimacy."
Divine Intimacy is the purposely chosen blessing that has promulgated my wife Christine and I to constantly grow in love together for almost 10 years, climbing mountain after mountain with Christ Yeshua in the middle of us, holding each of our paws.
Speaking only for myself, there is no way I could have done it without Jesus's help.
As much as I love and have loved Christine, our journey together has not been a "tip toe through the tulips."
Forthcoming is the beginning of Chapter 54 ~ "Divine Intimacy" :
"Since the greatest joy that a human being can experience in life is being blessed with a very, very carefully selected partner, a Divinely ordained selection results in living with 1 foot on earth and the other in heaven!
There is absolutely NO reason to settle on just anybody because we are feeling lonely.
Loneliness, depression and the ensuing suicides ~ now primarily caused by the “INTERNET OF ALL THINGS”, are reaching plannedemic levels.
Lamentably, the solution that a lot of people are reaching for are opioids and marijuana thanks to Big Pharma or even more demonic ~ pornography.
One of my greatest downloads from Ruach Hakodesh (Holy Spirit in Hebrew) was after I had enjoyed quite a few classes in the court mandated domestic violence course which I titled “Wife Beaters.“
I was totally sweat drenched reaching the summit of the Ringling Bridge in Sarasota, Florida after 45 minutes of aggressive Chi Walking.
Pausing for a moment to watch a monster sailboat cruise underneath, Ruach Hakodesh lovingly told me after I had expressed my gratefulness for the blessing that He gave me in having Christine as a partner:
"That a Divine Intimacy relationship was like carefully and gently rallying before a ping-pong match, to determine who serves first.
There is no paddle slamming, slicing or topspin, just a very careful and determined back & forth over the net."
And that gentleness is exactly what couples must provide for each other. As is so often repeated, it takes “2 to tango” for healing to take place.
Dealing and healing is what a good relationship should be about ~ never “sucking it up”.
Complete trust, fairness and support of the partner in negotiations, never expressing threatening behavior, sharing honest economic responsibility and accountability creates total EQUALITY.
LOVE is the glue and RESPECT is the bonding agent that results in a long-term joyful couplehood that no man or woman “can separate and put asunder.”
Already previously confirming all the defenses of the ego in people acting-out as victims, victimizers and rescuers to foolishly secure approval, control and safety, the name games, the blame games and the shame games become the abnormal “normal” ways of entropic interaction.