DIVINE INTIMACY ~ 5


During our 10 months apart in 2010, we purposely chose to work individually on ourselves and ultimately self-actualize as much as possible, with the goal of replicating those miraculous 6 weeks that we enjoyed at the end of 2009 with our feet not touching the ground.


As recounted previously, yet not planning to ~ through the inspiration of Ruach Hakodesh (Holy Spirit in Hebrew), we chose when we met for the very 1st time to tell each other as they say in United States' courts “the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help me God.”


And that we did ~ gently rallying as if before a ping-pong match, giving up the need of serving first to serve each other.


When we mindfully choose to put the needs of our partner before our own, then we can truthfully say that we are in the right relationship.


EMPTY CANVAS

A key couplehood component after telling each other all of our most intimate truths, especially after Christine previously being married for 34 years and becoming a widow; as well as my 34 years of marriage ~ 5 the first time via the Roman Catholic Church @ 19, and then 29 the 2nd occasion both ending in divorce, was committing to a totally fresh start.


Agreeing that for our new relationship to last the rest of our lives, we had to respect and forgive each other’s pasts; as well as honoring each other’s inherent family structures.


The truth setting us free, we both agreed that lies of omission are exactly that ~ lies.


Consciously choosing to completely clean out our closets, it was a very un-encumbering experience that continues to this day 9 years later.


And because in deciding to enjoy a mutual empty canvas to create on, we chose to let each other be 100% free and paint on any part, in whatever manner we individually chose to.


Whether it is Dali-like, Michelangelo inspired or abstract Picasso style, we enjoy an absolute blessing in expressing ourselves exactly as we personally desire.


Each partner has the right within the couplehood covenant of EQUALITY ~ to be exactly who they really are and to truly feel safe and free about it, as well as following their own individual path within the relationship.

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To protect the innocent and those antagonists that are dead or still alive, I have purposely and respectfully changed the names of all of the people characterized in this book that contributed to the actual 100% true events that took place.

The only persons in the narratives whose real “names are named” ala Don Corleone are my wife Christine, daughter Alexandra and son Christian.

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